Dear T,
Feelings just ARE.

I don't see how it's helping me for you to not respond to my email about the baby. It makes me feel sad and hurt. The rule we have doesn't make sense for something like this. I know you are trying to be consistent, but the baby announcement wasn't about my therapy so I won't be disappointed with just a "mazel tov". It seems like you're punishing me when you don't answer me. Why is that necessary?
rainbow