When we do T, I go some, he goes seldom, and we go together mostly. It is the same price because it is still just an hour. Some times I need to vent and have issues that are affecting things between us so I go for a month or 4 times until I can get my stuff partially resolved, then we go back to us going. When the issues arise are more related to him he goes then we go back to us going together.

Good luck. It is a financial strain to add a child to the mix, it is an emotional strain because children need you attention all of the time, and sometimes that can cause a strain on your husband/wife relationship as well.