i think counselling could be a huge help, and i know i've gotten a lot out of it, BUT only if u want to be there...if ur there under "duress", it's going to be a waste of time for everyone...on one hand i can see why he's getting frustrated, but on the other hand ur not just ignoring it, ur talking about other methods u can use to help urself, so u could give those a shot and see how they work...hopefully they do, but if not, time to call in the professionals! make ur choices based on what u think is best 4 YOU tho, not to appease him.