The one I see keeps telling me I am guarded. I actually have no idea what that means. Telling me to be less guarded does not work because I don't know what counts as guarded. I am not that great at guessing what others are feeling. I can tell something is off sometimes, but not often what it is. Usually I try asking and if they tell me I am willing to go along with that. Even if untrue I usually think I should be able to rely on what they told me as at least being the part they wanted me to rely on.