I will say that I think Leed hit the nail on the head. It's not that there are lies that have to be overcome but it seems that he is a habitual liar. It's not just once but clearly many times he's done this and that says to me that he has no intentions on doing things differently and therefore he has little respect for you and you should move on. You can't base a long term relationship on something that is not real, ie., Lies, deceit. it will fall apart sooner or later and why wait? Cut loose from this wretched person and find a real man with a backbone and integrity.