Hi Fuzzy,
I understand what you mean. I am like that, too. I think you don't tell someone you've been triggered by something they wrote because you're afraid they'll take it the wrong way or that you'll look paranoid-at least it's like that for me. You know about the winky face? Do you know how long that bothered me until I had the nerve to say something about it? So, whenever even a friend would PM or respond to a post with a winky smiley face-I'd be like-what do they mean by that winky-are they making fun of me? Are they being sarcastic? And then I'd feel a little defensive and not as open as I would have if the winky face hadn't been included in their post or message. I'm sure that defensiveness must have showed through my response in a lot of situations.
Anyway, I liked what you said about how some things can't be mended but NOTHING can be mended if nobody tries. I liked that a lot. That's a very familiar territory for me.
It makes me feel like I cared more than what the other person did when they just turn and walk away without wanting to discuss it or to try to find a way of resolving the problem. It makes me wonder, am I not worth trying to resolve the issue over?

((((((((FuzzyBear)))))))))))))
I wish the world was ran by puppydogs-no sooner are they upset then they forget,wag their tails, jump on you and start licking your face silly.
Your truely caring friends will make themselves vulnerable tto you and put their hand out to you even after you MIGHT have accidently nudged it a little too hard when you were triggered. Maybe they're going through their triggery thing in response to your trigger. We are all so fragile.