My Aunt Rosie was the ONLY one there for us and my Mom when we were kids. She left every single one of us kids a house (different neighborhoods, different worths) when she died. She was my bio-father's sister. My Mom's side of the family shunned us because of a variety of reasons.
So, I can't understand why it is now my Mom is best buddies with her side of the family but Aunt Rosie still doesn't have a tombstone on her grave. I've griped about this a couple of times to her and my rich older sister (who says Aunt Rosie was her favorite and how much she loves her) and they were both lateeeda about it-we'll get around to it eventually-IT'S BEEN 30 YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm one of the poorest ones in my family who's house she left to me was not worth not much at all (in a bad neighborhood and demolitioned) but I'm willing to put out monies towards a tombstone that will honor her.
I'm sooo mad at my family for being so mean, cold and heartless and unappreciative and just plain old rude!
I looked at tombstones but they are soooo expensive. I cannot afford it on my own. I've already brought it up a few times and I'm too frustrated angry to try bringing it up again.
It's going to cost atg least $700+ taxes for the cheapest tombstone and that doesn't include shipping or any other fees there are going to be to put the stone at her grave site.
I think I'll try talking to my brother about it. I'll see what he says. I'll let you know.