exactly...

and it completely defeats the purpose.

Dan wanted to assist the Ladies...with his expertise...and it was fine exactly the way it was ...just like if my girl (when I had one) was in trouble and I got run over by 16 trucks and was unable to do anything...then he could...!

thanks Dan...

but seriously....?...well I can be here.
all my girlfriends have been harmed in some way...
and this was before I met them.

but it's not a competition to see who can defend the best...cos if you look closely you just might find you're tryin' to prove something else...

and what does that mean?...huh?

well thats pretty obvious and then you become part of the problem!