as unappealing as my approach may seem ...

and despite my personal emotional investment in this matter...

I'm fine being the unlikeable...

I have witnessed talk about violence here that has concerned me as I would expect to hear from those who have not experienced it for real...and without detracting from the objective!...also!

...I guess what I want to say is that "men" are the problem ...in the world of domestic violence...."men" are the problem in the world of abuse...

men are the problem right here right now

are you man enough to admit you are part of the problem?

I'm not attacking your personality...I'm attacking your ego...

because all this "I know how to fight ********!"...is just that

rubbish...

women don't need our ego to defend themselves ..they need our respect!

you can ask questions gaijin if you like...but I don't expect you will like my answers

and thats ok