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My FIL that made a very inappropriate pass at me and groped me is in jail. I'm so very torn. My MIL and hubby are very upset. I'm having a hard time being sympathetic. All I want to say is "He's a drunken crackhead who also happens to be a predator. The streets are safer without him. Move on with your lives and associate with a better class of person."
What I am doing is just shaking my head and saying "Just be thankful he didn't hurt himself or an innocent bystander. I'm so sorry for you. I wish he'd thought of you before he had a stupid attack."
I feel so fake because I'm still freaking fuming over him putting his hands on me. IF he gets hit with habitual offender he'll be gone for about 30 yrs and I"M GLAD!!GLAD!!GLAD!! yet I feel so petty and conflicted. With his crack addiction and drunken temper he has held his family hostage forever but without him they seem so lost. I just don't get this.
He got drunk and high, tried to rape their roommate, then stole my MIL's car, slammed into some poor guy's pickup and fled the scene on foot. ALL WHILE ON HOUSE ARREST FOR A PREVIOUS CRIME!!
I want to throw a flipping party and they are devastated. I'm just so torn with wanting to help them and wanting to throw a fit at them asking "WHAT DID YOU EXPECT?!?!?!?"
But the end all be all is the Ahole is gone. Hopefully for a long time.
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