Hey Atypical Disaster so good to see you here!!! Well ok lets see question one, there are time when i notices Im beign shallow and its only because Iv e seen other people really caring , so then I learn ok Im being shallow, but do I really KNOW IT not at all, It completely oblivious to me! Like take for exp, my daughter she huts, scraped her knee, NOW going to parenting classes tell me I should do " things " to make her better, so i do them, BUT It can get very irratating for em at times. Two why Am I uncomfortable when im not center of attention, well i do one of two things, go get it else where, or try to find out why, actually Im not really sure, probally my shallowness kicking in LOL! three Am I aware that im ebign dramatic, idk, not really, I will be told from others that I am, But i feel what i feel so what can you do? Do I purposly manipulate well, it depends on the situation, I can, but i try not to manipulate, i think its more of an unconscious thing. What led me to get help was my affair i had on my husband....he new something was wrong with me