When my little one is near (which right now in most of the time) I feel all the sadness and fear she holds. She hasn't let me see the memories. I am working with my t on the memories. My t is working with on containment strategies where I theoretically set aside the emotions (that are powerful) and work on the memories. I have explained to my t that I my little ones emotions are not separate from her memories and I can not see a way to set the emotions aside without setting her aside. Is this familiar to anyone? If so how did you work this out without hurting the little one. My present thought is to just allow the memories come through with their attached emotions and withstand the storm. My system has managed to keep me alive and sane all this time I don't think that will change. Any feed back would help. Just knowing that others have had similar experiences will help. Thank you.