Well I seem to be whining alot these days, but its valid stuff, and those that matter don't mind, and those that mind don't matter! Right?
My ex SIL and spoiltbrat, screamingfits, tantrum - throwing, I don't respond to the word "no" nephew is moving in with us
indefinitly...
Yes! The very ones who had me ripping out my hair daydreaming of arson when they stayed for 2 weeks!
So I spent all of lastnight crying because my safe space is about to be invaded by 2 very inconvenient
aliens, and my mother said I'm SELF-CENTRED and CLEARLY I have NEVER learned to put myself in someone else's shoes!

no mum, nobody bothers to try on my shoes... whatevz
So I'm not too thrilled at this moment, but have come up with an idea to sort of ease my burden? I'm going to pack late daddy's left over clothing items neatly in 1 side of his cupboard, then tell mum she is free to welcome Mandy into HER private space / safe haven!
My mom will think it's downright dirty of me, but as usual, nobody asked ME if I mind sharing room and cupboard space, and I MIND.
This time mum will face the consequences of her actions, NOT ME
OK. Rant over, just stressed out and not really posty, so I wanted you guys to know why