I did start this thread, just like the last one..... i should have just shut up and not said anything either time. just keep to myself and not say anything anymore. because, really, I'm not a counselor. not a psychologist or psychiatrist. what business do I have trying to help people on here when I am not qualified. that can just lead to more harm than good. Mental harm is as devastating as physical harm. what business do I really have anyways? I'm not a blackbelt in fighting nor am I a blackbelt in psychology so what the hell should I do? never say anything again? If I am going to agree that I should not give any advice in self defense, I must also agree that I should not give any advice in mental health either. bad advice in one is no more hurtful than bad advice in the other. So based on this, wtf? I should just dissapear?