We have to keep ourselves strong by challenging negativity tossed at us, Trippin. Your mom has some real problems with weak ego that she is projecting onto you. Let her know you won't permit it to happen by letting her know that how she sees others is more a revelation of who she is in herself than who you are; that might awaken her to her behavior.

Take care; keep posting as you need to vent. You're one strong person. You've got everything, in my view: the intelligence, the awareness, the strength, the courage, and the ability to make the changes needed in your life.

Try not to let it get to you, though I know it's very difficult to keep from having it
be bothersome.

Feel better soon.