Hi honeybee777, thanks for answering my questions! It sounds like HPD can be very challenging to live with, has the help you've been getting been effective at all?(yes I know, more questions lol.
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Well ok lets see question one, there are time when i notices Im beign shallow and its only because Iv e seen other people really caring , so then I learn ok Im being shallow, but do I really KNOW IT not at all, It completely oblivious to me! Like take for exp, my daughter she huts, scraped her knee, NOW going to parenting classes tell me I should do " things " to make her better, so i do them, BUT It can get very irratating for em at times.
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Interesting, is it like you're unconsciously "testing" people to see if they really care or not? Also, with your daughter do you ever feel empathy towards her even if it's "shallow"?
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Two why Am I uncomfortable when im not center of attention, well i do one of two things, go get it else where, or try to find out why, actually Im not really sure, probally my shallowness kicking in LOL!
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It might do you some good to look at why you have that need to be the center of attention. Maybe if you figure it out you can work with yourself a bit better eh?
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three Am I aware that im ebign dramatic, idk, not really, I will be told from others that I am, But i feel what i feel so what can you do?
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I'm wondering what other people consider "dramatic" or "shallow"... because like you said you feel what you feel.
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Do I purposly manipulate well, it depends on the situation, I can, but i try not to manipulate, i think its more of an unconscious thing. What led me to get help was my affair i had on my husband....he new something was wrong with me
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Do you feel guilty/remorseful if you manipulate people? I'm glad you're getting help, I hope that your relationships start going more smoothly for you. Again, thanks for answering my questions.
