Bellecat,

I got a friend like the person you are crazy about. We are best friends for 4 years. At that time, I was into him so bad. He liked me. But we couldn't come to any thing. We chose to be best friends. Now we both know that is a smart choice. We can help, understand deeply, make joke, etc. Sometimes it's so romantic. In fact, we are just friends. He is a playboy. We never date, never in a relationship. I feel comfortable. At any time, I need help, he appears, helps me to some extent unconditionally.

Be friend! Then you will see its benefit. There is no need to be in a relationship. We could have a good person, ready by your side around us.

I hope you will get through soon. Hugs to ya.