myself , whew talk about making a plan when you're thinking clearly!!!! cudo's. it's kinda like creating rituals to take care of ourselves. we prepare for earthquake and fire out here. i hope i never have to use my plan, but, pretending nothieng is gonna happen is self defeating.same with relationships.

it's like all of this living life stuff is about doing maintanance: on ourselves, on ourstuffs, and on our relationships. ya know?

do you gyz have a code to bring up hard stuff for discussion? i used to preface sticking my big toe into the waters of discussion with the phrase, "Honey Baby Sweetie Pie" so they would know i was coming from love and not trying to set them up or attack or blame. it helped some. . .