Heres the deal.

My gf and I are deep in love for 4 years+ but things are about to end. We been keeping it secret from her parents for several reasons, mainly my gf not wanting to tell mom that will never accept me. She will always hate me no matter what. Her husband just left her. My gf just let slip that we are still talking. She did not let slip that we live together in her condo. She wants me to move out because she don't wanna lie anymore. I want her happy. Parental divorce + this is too much stress for my preciouse flower and I need to save the day. Please help, thank you.

P.s. haven't proposed because she said she would eventually tell fam, and I'm wanting to ask parental permission before I marry their daughhter cause it seems right