doggie, why do you have to choose? Can't you just leave yourself open to either and let the chips fall where they may? You said you work at a college, so surely there are lesbian geared functions, clubs, bars, gatherings where you may meet someone and just see how it feels? As for predatory older lesbians looking for straight girls to flip, I am sure there are a few. The world is filled with all sorts of people. In my experience most lesbian's do not like to get involved with first timers or straight women, as they run the risk of being an experiment and getting hurt by these women. So I guess it depends on if your in it for a relationship or for fun. Good Luck!