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Originally Posted by adam_k
I went thru something similar. A couple years ago I caught my wife having phone sex with a guy she met on the internet. It is very soul shattering to hear voicemails from another guy saying he loves your wife. I was furious but eventually we talked. I lost my job and was going thru a bout of depression. Our sex life was suffering and she wanted intemecy. That is why she did it. We eventually worked things out but I still have a hard time trusting she is faithful. If it happened again I would most likely leave her. She never talked to the guy again and things seem to be more good than bad now.
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I can truly relate with you, because I've been having a hard time trusting my husband too. Every other day I feel sad...and I don't feel like being intimate with him. I keep asking myself ...what if I didn't find the messages between him and his co-worker? Then what? He would have taken it further? Because he definitely didn't have any plans of telling me that he had lunch with her. He hid it from me just like your wife did with the guy she met. It just blows my mind away. I hope that things will continue to get better for you. I guess we just take it one day at at a time. I told my husband if I he does any bs like this again -- I'm done.