No ... it's not ok, everything sucks right now, totally sucks...
But it's going to be ok, I know you well enough to know it will get better.
You saw me in my rage last Friday after the ***** school principal gave me an hour long talking to... and you were there for me when I thought everyone hated me and was out to get me... and you helped me see it a different way, helped me calm down. I wish I could help you, what can I do to help? That's why I ask what would you say to me ... or to James, what if it was James what would you tell him?