Tina sometimes it is hard for them (our boyfriends and family) to realize it isn't that we don't care...it is just the fact that sometimes we can't listen to depressing or negative topics...it brings us down too much! We can only talk about these things when we know we are able too...That is why Psych Central is important...we can open up when we need to...the civies (or the sane people I call them...lol) don't always understand that...