Thanks! I will keep you posted! Children are grown! Turned their backs on me, due to his lies...to justify what he has done! He thought I would have made it easy on him just to get it over with!! He's gonna know that I'm NOONES door mat any longer!! I am very hurt. I don't want a divorce! No turning back at this point!! I have NOONE for support at all. I stumbled across this site because I was looking up councelors and shrinks!! I'm so close to being totally broken, it isn't even pretty....