I've been single for quite some time because I fear stringing someone along for a ride. My impression with most people is that they tend to want to rush the dating scene. Dating should be fun and without expectations. It's the stage where you are getting to know one another and discover if the other person is a potential mate for you. People should enter into something with an equal understanding of where the relationship stands in order to prevent anyone from feeling strung along. Unfortunately, that is often not the case. But.. if you are feeling doubts and seeing red flags from an early on stage then it is probably a good indicator that you must move on and look elsewhere.