Thank you Shezbut! I didn't think I was being selfish. I thought I was setting boundaries so I wouldn't be walked on. But when you have two people in your face yelling that you are being mean and selfish you start to doubt yourself. Hearing from someone else that I'm not being unreasonable truly helps. I'm digging in my heels on this one. I've even offered to stay a couple nights a week with her just so she won't be lonely and I won't have to drive so far to take her around. If it's not her way exactly then it's not good enough. I'm thinking about asking if she will come to a counseling session with me. Heck it can't hurt can it?
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