Lots to think about there. Correct Adam babies is a big issue.

Issues w/ the past can be concern. It can be scary to be at the mercy of someone's hormones, espicially such powerful ones involved in sex. Noisiness, aggressiveness, power and strength all a scary thing to some females.

You might just have to ask. Surely you ask other things, how do you like it, faster, slower, why not ask: how come you like me to finish not inside of you?