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TYMBERWOLV said:
Here is the thing that troubles me is that how do I go about giving control up ??? Can we actually do this ??

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YES....... we all can give up the control that is not ours to have over another.... we just stop trying to fix it all and we allow the other person(s) to have a mind and to decide some things for them self.

.... We step back and even leave the room if we feel that we are taking over another persons life.

.... We offer advice only if asked for it and then we do not push out advice onto another, and if they choice not to accept what we said - we leave it alone..... no anger!

LoVe,
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