I have searching for so long about my prior relationships as to why we connected, loved each other, and couldn't let go time after time. I was wondering how two people can love each other so much yet cant go a year without breaking up 5 times and just cannot seem to make it work.

Well I finally found the answer that I have been looking for, so I have to share. I am a classic case of a co-dependent and she is narcissistic. I put her before me, and she was all about herself. It is easy to see how codependents and narcissists get hooked up. It is like two pieces of the puzzle coming together.

Narcissists can be very skilled at dodging and ducking personal questions. If you press them, they will then slot you as “unsafe” and will begin to avoid you and exclude you from their life. EXACTLY what happened.

I admit I am a classic case of a co-dependent, and it is actually excited to finally get this answers I have been seeking and knowing is half the battle to recovery.