This is a great thread and with some humor- love it! I think u could probably say somethig like - hey babe, i wish I could sense what you're feeling...it would help me gauge things better. Any chance u can give me a sign - I'd love to know what you like when you like t.

Something like that. I had a bf that I just came out and old him I needed him to be more vocal so I knew what he liked when I was doing it. He laughed and totally agreed and said he'd try.

Good luck!