Those are/were my feelings, but apparently she NEEDED to become a member to know my true feelings because she didn't believe I like her and am fully capable of being friendly to her. She thinks I'm nice to her face and then talk about her to family to turn them against her. I don't NEED to talk about her, to gossip! They already know what she's like! The only reason I post here about her and my son is because THERE IS A PROBLEM I would like to solve. Obviously, she won't allow it. She would rather make John choose between her and her family and his parents. He's married to her and they have three kids! How does she think he's going to choose, for pity's sake?? Truth of the matter is, he shouldn't have to choose!

I've even told John that I respect the fact that she's his wife. It's HIS choice. It's not good enough.

AAAAHHHHH! Whatever!