Ahhh! That puts a whole new spin on it and explains why he gets upset with you. Obviously I don't you or your fiancee and don't know how he'll react but still think he should be there for you, perhaps moreso now I know he's also been through it. Maybe write him a letter telling him how you're feeling and ask for his help, love ad support? Then leave it somewhere so he can read it whilst you're out so he'll be undisturbed?

I don't know. Maybe this is rubbish advice and i'm an old romantic!

Whatever you decide to do, good luck. If you wanna talk these forums are here for you