This is one I need work on... See the thing is I have a hard time reading people's emotions and facial expressions. Including what triggers someone. So I sometimes NEED to be told what is and what IS NOT acceptable to someone.. I have ACC ( agenesis of corpus callosum) and it may make it seem like I am apathetic but this is far from it. I just can;t read people as say.. someone who does NOT have ACC.. a rare brain birth defect. think of ACC like autism or aspergers. if someone tells me what I can expect or what they don't like.. including triggers.. then I am good with that and respect them awhole lot more then if they back stab me.