OurLadysTears said "Dating should be fun and without expectations".
I wish! The thought of dating scares the heck out of me! Mind you, I've never been on one so what do I know right?

<Now I've put myself on one of my downers and forgotten what I was going to say>
<ah yes>

As far marriage goes it really depends on the couple. I believe marriage should be a true partnership. There will be bad times, there will be good. But as long as you've found the person you can fight through those things together with, then you'll be OK.

Should you be 'crazy' about them?
I'm not sure. Being 'crazy' in love implies impulsiveness to me and I don't think marriage should be an impulsive act.