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Old Feb 09, 2013, 01:37 PM
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I wasnt sure wheter to post on this forum or the anxiety forum. Let me start with - I love my husband. But he talks non stop. I mean every thought that is in his mind has to be expelled through his mouth. I feel guilty about feeling this way about him b/c he is a good husband, a good father, a good man. his voice is like a nail through my head. I have poor assertivness skills and even worse boundry issues but I do try to get through to him as tactfully as possible. I usually end up ripping his head off and of course i hurt hs feelings

He's out running errands right now but will be home soon and I just need to put this out there for someone to hear. Im struggleing right now to keep from breaking down with him.

It seems like im making a mountain into a mole hill but weve been married for a long time and I cant take it anymore.

He can be over powering, not physically but mentally, emotionally. I usually give in just to make him stop talking. I know that I sound stupid....the solution is easy..set boundries but its more complicated b/c of the nature of my child hood.

I think im just going to take a xanax or a couple of xanax to get me through the weekend.