I do not go to sleep at the same time as my H. We have very different sleep patterns. He gets up around 4 or 5 m. If I had to get up this early it would not be good. I am not a morning person.

My H goes to bed around 8:30 or 9:00 pm. I am just not tired at that time. Sometimes I will lay down w. him and talk until he goes to sleep and then get up and do what I need to do.

I sleep from 12:00 -1:00ish until 8:00 am then take a two hour nap most days from 1:30 - 3:30 when my littlest one sleeps.