hello, i was born in late 60s to a abusive family and went from home to home because I wasn't wanted anywhere. I tried to get affection, but it was always conditional. I needed to agree, then I get comfort. I needed to go along then get approval. I neeeded to do homewark, then i get feel safe whatever. I learned bAD habits and needed to learn new ways to live. dada hung himself me find dada dead moma went to away. baby was teased lots. never trust again baby doesn't. but baby learn to survive. babay suvrvive well! I can speak normal but this topic uis easier to cnfrnt with this language. begrayal normal. trust foreign. hope this help.. brook