hey everyone, thanks for writing to me! i think i agree that its mostly about choices we make, and about letting things work out..so i guess i have to find a way to handle the situation and make it work. im working on that. lately ive met a few people that have similar relationships with me, so that helps me a bit... we'll see how it goes! in the meantime, if thers anyone that has any simialr expirience, or just has anything to say bout these kind of relationships..im all ears