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To probably sound like a total ***** (like I care)... You knew you were coming to a forum of sex addicts & you chose to write provocative material clearly states to me that your intentions don't seem to be very genuine. You're more focused on getting validation & rousing people than actually being concerned.
If your therapist doesn't think it's a big deal because it's not negatively affecting your life -- well then great. You're well-adjusted & have a good sexual appetite. If you have kept it from interfering in your life so far, then there's no reason you can't in the future. There's nothing wrong with exploring parts of human sexuality some people seem to think is reserved for the mentally unstable, abused, or depraved.
Some people are adrenaline-junkies & go skydiving for fun. You have sex for fun. But you also have a serious desire for attention & you don't have to have a wrecked childhood to develop that -- it could have been your peer group. It could have been a romantic partner. It could have been your "good girl" card was overly-validated & you subconsciously felt you needed to break through that.
I honestly can't tell you because I'm not a professional. But I do know that I'm not the only person here you triggered... So while I am as recovered as I can possibly get, there are a lot of people who have serious & life-damaging issues with sex that probably can't handle this post as well. I'd use better judgement next time if I were you.
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