Thanks to everyone who responded. I got a variety of thoughts and suggestions, and I appreciate every one of them. Right now I'm taking it one day at a time and trying hard to overcome things that have happened. This other women has since left the area and we said our good-byes to her a few weeks ago. My husband's voice did choke up when he said good-bye to her and I could tell by her voice and look that there was some sort of attraction between them. She was sitting at the doctor's office getting her chemo treatment when we stopped in to say good-bye though so there was no physical interaction between anyone. I don't expect we'll see her on this earth again since she does have teminal cancer. I tried to be gracious and non-confrontational with her. I never told her what I know about my husband kissing her.

I did see her once alone after she left our house and she asked me how things were going at home, so I suspect she thought there may be a problem between me and my husband or maybe she was hoping there was one. I just smiled and lied and said everything was fine.
Can you believe she thinks when she gets through this cancer treatment and recovers, she plans to come back to town and just take up where she left off? I just went along with it because I know she doesn't have much of a chance of living more than a year more. That's what the doctors have given her and that was several months ago. I can see her condition deteriorating too.

Thanks again for your suggestions. I'll consider them and probably try them all.

Noreen