hi,

I'm new here too. I have have been in your shoes with my daughter. Same everything. I would hardly get to work when I would have to go to school to her. We went to counselor for about 2 years for anxiety disorder. It was soooo bad that I couldn't get out of her sight. It was like being attached at the hip. My daughter is going on her First slumber party ever this weekend! Like the others have said talk w/ her teacher, school counselor and if nothing (remember nothing to us - adults- can be traumatic to a preteen) is going on there. then look into professional counseling. Took us two tries to find a counselor my daughter & I could connect with.
joyl