I spent the evening last night with Arvind.

It's a new new thing to just be friends. We still have a lot of romantic stuff between us. We are setting some boundaries: no kissing, no petting, no romantic talk, no propositioning.

As a result we are both forced to look at the *friendship*.

I read Rachel's book Get Me Out Of Here, Chap 25, where she talked about s*x*ality and not acting on it with inappropriate people and feeling respected and respectful.

It was too cold for me to stay out of the house, but I did go to a 12 step meeting.

Weekends... .

Carol