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Old Feb 09, 2013, 10:29 PM
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I know this is a wierd post, but I feel I need to vent and would like to hear what others have to say (if you feel like posting).

I do not need:
my family doing things for me that I don't need them to, just so they could have something to throw in me face later

my family denying to my face how much they've hurt me, and then rub my face in how much they've "done for me"

people running around trying to "rescue me" when I didn't ask them to, then turning around and getting mad at me

people comparing how much I do for them to how much they've done for me

my sister trying to "help me" become a little wifey-poo when I have no one to be a wifey-poo to

people trying to make excuses for me so that I will feel like I owe them

people offering to do things for me that they know they will never do, just so they can "look spiritual"

my family still feeling like they need to "set me straight" when I am old enough to be a grandma!

I don't need anyone to treat me like a child that has to be coddled and protected from the world--especially since I've already seen too much because these same people were not there for me when I was growing up and being abused!
more:
I don't need my sister trying to convince me that I really don't have an illness, that I'm just being "too hard on myself."
People telling me, "You're not that disabled."
Being told that if I just moved to a bigger city, I could actually find a job!
Being told that if I just learned how to drive, that would cure my depression.
People suggesting "good jobs" for me.
My brother in law always calling me a hermit.
My sister always "checking" on me to see if I have any plans for the day.
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