Yep, this has been an issue in every relationship in which I have lived with a woman. Personally, I don't understand what's so damn important about going to bed together. It not like she ever has sex. Ever. So really what's the point of being in the bed at the same time when all you're going to do there is sleep? Is it really that important to spend time together while unconscious? A lot of times, I pretend to go to bed with her and then get back up once she falls asleep.