nos, I think you need to talk with your spouse about your feelings of wanting "more." If you do, maybe "more" will happen that might satisfy you? That would be good, I believe. Sex is important, though we feel shy about it. Getting our needs met, while respecting our partners feelings and their self image, is VERY important to a healthy relationship. Talk to spouse about it or maybe a threesome? Your spouse may have these wishes also? Can't hurt, I'm thinking. G'luck. Brook.