Brookwest, send me a private message and we can chat more. In the place I'm thinking of is support, understanding, forgiveness, love, etc. I am going to bed in a few minutes. I'm on EST and it's past my bedtime, but I can read what you want to tell me tomorrow.

I am a professional psychologist (but not one that treats people for mental illnesses), but I have about heard every possible story over the years.