hugs for everyone here i dont think you are losing her but rather that your lives are going through some changes and it takes a while for both of you until your friendship adapts to the new situation. are you still talking over skype or email? when i finished high school i grew apart from two friends i was very close to. we tried very hard to make it work but we realized that we were leading three extremely different lives and once high school was over we had nothing in common anymore except memories. it was depressing and i thought it was my fault that i didnt try to make it work. it was discouraging to lose touch but it forced me to find new friends. i met new people who were more like me. im sorry for what you are going through. i think we can all relate. hugs