Eonblue,
I'm afraid I don't have the answer, but I do know how it feels to be alone on Valentines Day. Seeing all the couples and hearts and 'love' things on TV is like a knife to the heart. One that's being twisted all day for someone's pleasure. All I can suggest is get yourself some DVDs to take your mind off it all - anything that wont remind you of what you don't have at the moment, but you will have in the future - I'm sure of it.