Yesterday, my boyfriend told me that there are days when he doesn't love me. The thing about him is he's controlling and always wants me to do everything he says right away or he starts yelling at me, these are the days he refers to, I know because I asked him. I don't think there's been a single day when he hasn't yelled at me. Whenever I fall behind in housework he acts like I don't do anything at all and calls me lazy, and that I'm taking advantage of him, etcetera. Another thing is he always thinks he knows what I'm thinking or over-exaggerates something I said and makes it sound completely different than the way I know it came out. I just don't know what to do or say to him without him turning on me....how do you tell your boyfriend/girlfriend that you think they need Anger Management?! Even if I did have the courage he'd just talk about how I should just do what I'm told when I'm told. My friends have overheard him yelling at me, turning a molehill into a mountain, over a Skype call I was in with them. They get really mad and tell me I need to leave him. I don't want to leave him though. We've been together for over a year...2 years in August (We started dating on my birthday and his birthday is the day after mine). I don't know what to do, he didn't start off this way...it starting getting like this late last year....I'm starting to feel lonely and depressed all the time. I'm starting to get so stressed I can't sleep. What do I do?! How do I try to communicate with him when he's never willing to listen to anything I have to say?! Any time I try to confront him about something he tries to turn it around and make it my fault. Somebody please help me...I'm out of options...what do I do?!
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