I have come to think like the lawyers. Money is the bottom line here. No one is interested in psychological, emotional abuse, blah, blah, blah. It's 20 years of assets - liabilities and whatever else the attorneys bring to the table. Go to the shrink and the psychologist and dr. for meds, counseling, etc. (I do). I have come to quasi-trust my attorney, but I don't really trust her---if you know what I mean...it's difficult to explain. I know and she has assured me she will act in my best interest, etc. So far, I feel she has done that. I guess at this point I have trust "issue" with many people by virtue of the divorce experience.

Should anyone have a similar feeling,advice, observation, please share...